pastoring

The Pastor: A Memoir

I first heard of Eugene Peterson when I was a seminary student. Michael Haykin, one of my professors, recommended that I read Working the Angles. I did, and I’d never read anything

Letter to a Wounded Pastor

Dear Pastor, Thank you for your ministry. It may not seem like it right now, but God has used you. I know this because God uses the kinds of things you’ve done

My First Days As a Pastor

I’ve had three first days as a pastor in three different churches. Day One On my first day ever I was 24. I moved into my office, arranged my books, and sat

In Defense of Funerals

I’ve wanted to write a defense of funerals for a while now. I notice a trend to call services “celebrations of life” instead of funerals. I understand why. We like to focus

The Long Haul

In 1991, at the age of 24, I became pastor of a small church in southwest Toronto. I thought I had arrived. I threw myself into the work with everything I had — everything